Here is an excerpt from the book, published on Adevărul.ro : “Common custody, a great spell” the notion of family is missing, I was very happy when we went skiing together, at the sea. Common custody … a great spell, nothing replaces the family (…) You, father, went and resigned yourself elsewhere and mother, you locked yourself in dungeons and destroyed your soul .
There is no worse feeling than seeing that your father is no longer where he once was and he is getting cold and you see your mother crying and you crying with her so that you know that your annoyances are also my annoyances. I have nothing else to say, because my soul was bruised, I was just a child “signs the former rogue.
Divorce can be as painful as death. Both for the couple and for the children. The good news is the wound can be healed, but with one condition: Allow yourself to be healed, be patient with yourself and those around you, and don’t be afraid. When my parents had problems with the couple, I remember becoming aggressive and not paying attention to the words I said. And I think it’s important that in one form or another there is a form of communication. Parents need to know when the child is in trouble and take immediate action to help them. Children are not to blame for what happens between parents. On the other hand, don’t underestimate your children! What you feel, the child feels.So don’t rely on the fact that he doesn’t understand or that the information that reaches him is so insignificant that it won’t affect him in any way. The only difference is that a child does not develop the rational part well enough as an adult and then his decisions are not in accordance with logic, but rather with emotions.
So listen to your kids!
Through communication, patience, acceptance and commitment you can become a better parent! It’s not serious to make mistakes, it’s serious not to accept that you can be wrong too.
We all make mistakes sooner or later. We can all do harm unintentionally. But how can you evolve if not through mistakes? How else to learn?
You who read these lines now know that you are a good parent.
Just because you were curious to see what I have to say. But how can we make those who are wrong about their children want to change?