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Before you make anyone else suffer, remember this

You know … I’m a mother. And it’s damn hard. Because from the moment the two pink dashes appeared, my life changed. Mother’s life = worries.
And I don’t think it will ever end. I will worry every day. Of course, there is joy and gratitude. All in one place.

But that doesn’t mean I don’t miss a spoonful of rice pudding in front of the TV. I also miss that delicious coffee I was sipping in peace with my husband. I miss a lot of things that I didn’t care so much about. But … I know how much we wanted this baby. I know how the doctors said that our chances are not too high and yet Bărbosu ‘arranged the miracle.

So it doesn’t bother me so much to eat only soup juice and boiled potatoes. It doesn’t bother me that I can’t smell French perfume for so long, or that I can’t pay attention to my old husband. It doesn’t bother me that for a long time we will be in 2nd place.

But it would bother me terribly to one day make my child suffer. Whether he’s 15, 20 or 40 years old.

You see, we all have a mother. And damn it, if there’s a mother who doesn’t bother or make sacrifices.

Some more, some less. Does not matter.

It would bother me terribly not to respect my child. For the same reason. That I’m on the verge of death is good for him, and I can’t stand the idea of ​​someone trying to ruin what I’m trying to build.

So, before you make anyone else suffer, remember this

You are not harming a single person, but you are also hurting the parents who raised that person. Always remember that it is good to tell the truth and that most of the time, the truth hurts the least.

Even if it doesn’t look like it. Always remember that you will receive everything you offer, so measure your words and deeds.

Before you make anyone else suffer, remember this

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