The power of a mom lies in her ability to make her children happy!
If you are a mom, I don’t need to tell you that raising children is far from easy. Besides, before being a parent, none of us suspected the responsibility and the pride that lay behind this sweet name. Indeed, when we give birth to an innocent and helpless little being, we suddenly understand that, for the first time in our life, the happiness and well-being of another person rests entirely in our hands. It is at this precise moment that this baby becomes our priority.
Nothing is more important than him and we devote all of our time and energy to his education. Little by little, the little baby grows up and becomes an energetic child, full of humor and eager to learn all that the world has to offer. Over the years, this child becomes an adolescent and begins to form his own personality. This period is the perfect time for discovery, new experiences and fun. But adolescence is also a time for making mistakes.
In fact, the child gradually detaches himself from family authority and tries to lay the foundations for his future by making more or less intelligent decisions. Did your daughter really need this tattoo? Or, does your son really think all of these video games are going to help him make friends? Certainly not, but at that point those choices seemed to be wise, at least for them.
The role of a parent is also to let their child flourish at their own pace and in their own way, so if they have to make some mistakes along the way before they find themselves, so be it! Yet giving him complete freedom is easier said than done. Indeed, we still remember our adolescence and the mistakes we made or decisions we regret.
Despite everything, we try to control our impulses and let our child make his own choices, hoping that the time and effort that we have devoted to his education will pay off. Afterwards, for a mother, it is not the same to raise a boy and a girl. Indeed, the emotional bond between a mother and her Mini Me is quite special and exceptional.
The essential rules of life that you should know
Today, therefore, I decided to focus on the spiritual connection that unites a mother and her daughter. If, like me, you are lucky enough to have a daughter, you will understand what I’m talking about. When you watch her grow into a young girl, you tell yourself that you are really lucky to see her change and turn into a real woman.
You still remember the day she was born, her first steps, her first crush, but also her first sorrows and disappointments. You encouraged her to fight for what she wanted, you supported her when she was depressed or lost, and you were there at every important point in her life.
Now, you are probably wondering how to best prepare her for the future that is opening up to her. How do you make him understand that not everyone has good intentions? How do you guide her without making her feel like you want to be in control of her life? All of these questions are completely normal and all moms ask themselves.
Indeed, we are perfectly aware that the modern world can be cruel, especially for girls. So, it is essential to teach ours to protect itself, to let know what it wants and to fight to achieve its goals. How to tell her that she must make her happiness and her well-being a priority?
For my part, I decided to have a frank and direct conversation with her and I chose to share these few tips. I made this selection because I firmly believe that these are the main rules that all young girls should follow to prepare for their bright future. So get inspired to have an open-hearted discussion with your princess.
1. The world is yours.
It’s a bit cliché, but it’s still true. Set out to conquer this world that is offered to you. Whatever you decide to do, I will always be there to support you. Do you want to travel the world, become an astronaut or a ballerina? Do you want to go parachuting or learn a new language? Do as you like ! Don’t get caught up in routine and boredom. This decision is up to you and take my word for it: the impossible is only an option!
2. Your happiness depends only on you.
Your happiness does not depend on the eyes of men or the attention that others give you. You have the power to control your emotions, your life and… Your happiness. So please choose to be happy! Smile, laugh and dance. Watch an entire season of your favorite series. Enjoy life… Stay away from toxic people and relationships. I may not always be there to make you happy but I will teach you how to become yourself!
3. Surround yourself with people you can trust blindly.
The most important thing is to have a support system that is always there to respond. It’s great to have friends or family but you need people you can trust completely. People to whom you will be able to really entrust everything and who will be there in difficult times. Don’t get involved in a multitude of superficial friendships, focus on quality instead. Better to have one or two loyal friends than dozens of fake ones.
4. Always walk with your head held high.
Never let anyone put you down. You are valuable and you are important. In the course of your life, you will meet nasty and toxic people. Unfortunately, you will not be able to escape it and I will not always be able to protect you. What they say only has value if you believe it. So I’m going to teach you to dodge hits and get even stronger.
5. Your productivity does not determine your success.
If you’re not feeling well, stay home. Certainly days, you will feel completely exhausted or drained and your productivity will be at its minimum. But, that doesn’t mean that you can’t accomplish great things. sometimes you will give 100%, other times 50% and sometimes you won’t be able to lift your head off the bed. It’s normal ! I firmly believe in you and I know that you are going to do great things.
6. You have the right to fail as long as you struggle to get up.
Life is full of ups and downs and you can’t always be on top. The good news is, you can’t be depressed all the time either. You have the right to fail, get fired, or have financial problems. Your projects will flow, you will draw a line too easily on certain people… All of this will happen! Everything will be forgiven if you do not give up! After a negative situation, you will have to find a better version of yourself. You only have one life, so live it to the fullest.
7. Never hide your opinion.
Whether it’s me, your boyfriend, your but … Anyone, actually … Don’t hide your opinion. If what you are saying makes sense, don’t let anyone convince you that you are wrong. Instead of letting you down, prove to them you’re right. Just because your opinion is different from that of most people, doesn’t mean it doesn’t matter or that it’s wrong. If you know what you’re talking about or if you have a strong opinion, let it be known!
8. Beauty is where you seek it.
You don’t have to wear clothes that are too revealing to be noticed or beautiful. Yes, lipstick is beautiful. But, jogging too. What I mean is that the standard of beauty is something that should be yours. Don’t let yourself be swayed by so-called fashion or friends. High heels are sexy, but so can sneakers. Curly hair is lovely and straight hair is also. You can be whoever you want, without any shame or restriction.
9. Crying is not a sign of weakness.
Do not hide your tears and do not pile up your negative emotions. They will eventually suffocate you! If you want to cry, cry! This is perfectly normal. To have feelings is to be human. You don’t have to always wear a shell. Don’t put up insurmountable walls because I’ll teach you how to deal with a broken heart.
10. If you want something, give yourself the means to get it.
I truly believe that if you really want something, the whole universe is working to give it to you. Do not think that you are not worth it or that you cannot achieve your goals. You can do anything. You can move the mounts and hit any person’s heart. Invest yourself fully and you will have the world at your feet.
11. Not everyone will be able to love you the way you deserve, so accept these people for who they really are.
When you love, you have to do it unconditionally. Do not erase yourself, do not push others away, and do not put conditions on love. It is only when you are able to love without expecting anything in return that you can say that you have truly loved. And, don’t worry: love will never fail you. I will teach you to love yourself regardless of the behavior of others towards you.
12. Instead of hurting others, show them that they are important.
I will teach you not to be mean and not to blame others for the anger that you have accumulated during your working day. You have to be the positivity in the lives of others because sometimes kind words can save lives. Instead of building walls of protection, make routes to the hearts of your friends. After all, you can’t be sure you’ll never find yourself in the same situation as them.
13. To be happy you don’t need a man.
Society and your friends will tell you that you need a man to be complete, that’s wrong! I gave birth to you and you’ve always been a complete human being so drop this nonsense. These people will try to make you feel like you don’t have much value because you don’t have a man next to you. And, they’ll tell you that your happiness and success depend on whether a man wants you or not. These are c ********! Your happiness and your whole life depend only on you and your personal investment.
14. Most men are idiots but don’t worry you will find a man who will love you the way you deserve.
You will understand this on your own, sooner or later, but I’m telling you anyway. Sometimes men don’t know what to do with themselves so I’ll let you imagine how they can feel about the women in their lives. Very often they are completely lost and, because of that, they can completely turn your life upside down. But, the man who will love you as you deserve really exists! Someone will choose you and they will choose you everyday for the rest of your life. Be patient and don’t lower your standards!
15. Never let anyone change you.
If you want to work on your flaws, do it! If you want to invest a little more time in your personal development, take the plunge. But, all the changes you make in your life should be the result of your personal decisions. Don’t let others rule your life, let alone convince you that you are not good the way you are. You are perfect and you are the only one who knows what is good or bad for you.